Monday, September 28, 2015

DVD Review: The Farewell Party

The Farewell Party is an excellent film dealing with questions of aging, assisted suicide, and the amount of control we have, or should have, over our lives, including how they’ll end. While the subject might sound heavy, the film has a sincere humor at moments, and it is beautifully acted and lovingly shot. Sure, you may be in tears at times, but you’ll also be laughing out loud at other times, as you come to care about this film’s characters.

The movie opens quietly, the camera approaching a man from behind as he makes a phone call. And we see an elderly woman who, with the help of her walker, goes to answer the phone. Then suddenly, a large, echoing voice on the phone calls out the woman’s name, “Zelda.” The woman asks, “God?” And we see both sides of the conversation, as she tells the man she believes to be God that her cancer is back, and the man, who is not God, tells her to be strong, not to give up. He tells her there currently aren’t any vacancies in heaven, and so she should continue her treatments. The man, Yehezkel, a retired inventor, is doing what he can to help her live, while his wife, Levana, lingers behind his chair, clearly supportive.

The film takes place mainly in a retirement home where the residents find they really have to help each other out, that there isn’t much help or understanding coming from outside their small world. The film establishes this by not developing many outside characters, and keeping the perspectives that of the residents of the retirement community. Soon we meet Max, another elderly man being cared for, but clearly suffering. When Yehezkel and Levana go to visit him, Max tells them, “Help me get it over with.” Yana, his wife, wants to help him die, saying, “They’re keeping him alive as though dying is a crime.” While dying might not be a crime, assisting a suicide is, and so they are unsure at first how to proceed, or if they in fact should proceed. Death is obviously on the minds of those who dwell in the retirement community, even on Levana’s mind, as she is intent on passing on one of her recipes to her grown daughter.

Though Levana disapproves, Yehezkel decides to build a suicide machine based on one he sees on the internet, and a small group of friends help Max commit suicide. But then soon another man comes to them, asking for help. The man, Dubek, threatens to turn them in to the authorities if they don’t help him, making him less of a sympathetic character, though of course we understand his desperation.

There are many heart-wrenching moments in this film, like when Levana, who is beginning to suffer from dementia, doesn’t recognize Yehezkel, and keeps repeating that she wants her husband, while he is seated right there beside her. The only weak moment in the movie is the sequence where suddenly many of the characters each sing a portion of a song. This is obviously taken straight out of Magnolia, and it is for that reason that it pulled me out of the story momentarily; also, the sequence wasn’t far enough into the film to have the emotional impact that it did in Magnolia. But other than that, this is an excellent and engaging film.

The Farewell Party was written and directed by Sharon Maymon and Tal Granit, and was released on DVD on September 22, 2015 through First Run Features. The film is presented in its original Hebrew with English subtitles. The DVD contains no special features.

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